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The Conflict Cycle: Why You Keep Having the Same Fight

The Conflict Cycle: Why You Keep Having the Same Fight

Why do you keep having the same fight—no matter how many times you promise it’ll be different? This post explains the “conflict cycle,” how it forms, and why your reactions can unintentionally reinforce the pattern. Learn how to spot the cycle, slow down escalation, and take practical first steps toward healthier communication and repair.